Don't think you are never a Verbal Villain until you have seen this.  The benefit that you will get from this is that you can touch up some of the imperfections you have in your communication with others, and if you are human, you have imperfections. Forgive me for blurting that out, but it is an inescapable fact about you (and me, too).  A reasonable goal for us is to be less imperfect less often.  So sit back, take the medicine, and go out paying attention to how people respond to you.  Click the play button on the image below to watch, listen, and think about this video.